Nearly Erdős-Ko-Rado theorems
If a family $\mathcal{F}$ of $k$-element subsets of an $n$-element set is pairwise intersecting, $2k\leq n$ then $|\mathcal{F}|\leq {n-1\choose k-1}$ holds by the celebrated Erdős-Ko-Rado theorem. But an intersecting family obviously satisfies the condition $${\ell \choose 2}\leq \sum_{1\leq i<j\leq \ell}|F_i\cap F_j| $$ for any...